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My husband died 2 years ago, it was an incredible 46 year romance and getting over his death was a challenge. This blog is all about how I dealt with his death, the strategies I used, the tools I discovered, the opportunities I embraced and the new preloved life I have built. My Blog is divided into Beginnings, Helped Me, Solo Life. and Sixty Days.


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When Life Goes in a New Direction
Nov 24, 2021
When Life Goes in a New Direction
Nov 24, 2021

Imagine getting a call from ITV News saying they’d run to interview you about your Airbnb experiences. I was happy to help, Airbnb has certainly played a big part in my life helping to overcome loneliness and filling my home with light. This is the story of what happened

Nov 24, 2021
NLP - Great Strategies For Change
Nov 24, 2021
NLP - Great Strategies For Change
Nov 24, 2021

NLP training is great way to learn new life strategies. An added bonus for me is that I made some great friends on the training course too.

Nov 24, 2021
How Journaling Saved Me
Nov 24, 2021
How Journaling Saved Me
Nov 24, 2021

I really enjoy writing in my journal, last night I wrote 14 pages about the Ipswich Spill Festival . Find out how my journals have helped me.

Nov 24, 2021
Moscow, End of the Line
Nov 24, 2021
Moscow, End of the Line
Nov 24, 2021

This series of blogs was written in the Summer of 2017, I wanted to bring them into MyPrelovedLife to remind me of the wonderful adventures I had travelling 20,000 miles around the world, feeling safe and loved by so many people. Travelling across the entire length of Russian, through Siberia to Moscow, end of the line for me.

Nov 24, 2021
On Board the Trans Siberian Express
Nov 24, 2021
On Board the Trans Siberian Express
Nov 24, 2021

This series of blogs was written in the Summer of 2017, I wanted to bring them into MyPrelovedLife to remind me of the wonderful adventures I had travelling 20,000 miles around the world, feeling safe and loved by so many people. Travelling across the entire length of Russian, from Beijing through Siberia to Moscow

Nov 24, 2021
My Beijing Life
Nov 24, 2021
My Beijing Life
Nov 24, 2021

This series of blogs was written in the Summer of 2017, I wanted to bring them into MyPrelovedLife to remind me of the wonderful adventures I had travelling 20,000 miles around the world, feeling safe and loved by so many people. Cycling in Beijing, close to the Forbidden City and climbing the Great Wall of China

Nov 24, 2021
Shanghai Friends and Culture
Nov 24, 2021
Shanghai Friends and Culture
Nov 24, 2021

This series of blogs was written in the Summer of 2017, I wanted to bring them into MyPrelovedLife to remind me of the wonderful adventures I had travelling 20,000 miles around the world, feeling safe and loved by so many people. My fourth country, China, Shanghai

Nov 24, 2021
All At Sea
Nov 24, 2021
All At Sea
Nov 24, 2021

This series of blogs was written in the Summer of 2017, I wanted to bring them into MyPrelovedLife to remind me of the wonderful adventures I had travelling 20,000 miles around the world, feeling safe and loved by so many people. Sailing from Osaka through the inland Japanese sea to Shanghai was wonderfully cathartic

Nov 24, 2021
Miyajima, The Most Photogenic Place on Earth
Nov 24, 2021
Miyajima, The Most Photogenic Place on Earth
Nov 24, 2021

This series of blogs was written in the Summer of 2017, I wanted to bring them into MyPrelovedLife to remind me of the wonderful adventures I had travelling 20,000 miles around the world, feeling safe and loved by so many people. Visiting the magical temple of Miyajima

Nov 24, 2021
My Pilgrimage to Hiroshima
Nov 24, 2021
My Pilgrimage to Hiroshima
Nov 24, 2021

This series of blogs was written in the Summer of 2017, I wanted to bring them into MyPrelovedLife to remind me of the wonderful adventures I had travelling 20,000 miles around the world, feeling safe and loved by so many people. Visiting the Peace Memorial in Hiroshima

Nov 24, 2021
Elene Marsden Hiroshima

My Pilgrimage to Hiroshima

November 24, 2021 in Sixty Days

2 years ago Steve visited Hiroshima, he was impressed with how the city has been totally rebuilt after the bombing, he also told me he was moved to tears by the Peace Museum. Steve had planned to take me there this year and I’m so grateful that Lyle organised a 4 day trip to Hiroshima for us in his memory.

In just over 4 hours the super-fast bullet train from Tokyo arrived at Hiroshima. Our hotel had such lovely views across the bay. What impressed me the most from our 16th floor room was the tiny peaked mountain island in the bay, so very Japanese and the boats gliding across the misty calm waters, so relaxing to watch.

From our room we could also see the hotel swimming pool which I was banned from using because of my tattoos, I offered to cover them but the hotel receptionist refused to give me a pool pass. Never mind, I went to the hotel’s onsen instead that very night and covered my tattoos with 3 plasters. I don’t think anyone noticed, it was 11.00 pm not many people were taking an onsen. The idea behind an onsen, or public bathing, is that you wash yourself thoroughly over a low sink, sitting on a small stool and when you’re completing clean, you bath in a communal pool. One of the pools was outside and at midnight with the air temperatures still at 27 degrees, it’s quite an experience, soft brown lighting illuminating the waters. Such a relaxing thing to do after an incredibly busy day.

There are so many things to see at the Peace Memorial Park, the Peace Gates, enshrined with the words PEACE in 47 languages, the Peace Flame that will burn until all nuclear weapons are abolished, the Children’s Peace Monument with the statue of Sasaki Sadako lifting up a folded paper crane. She believed that if she folded 1000 cranes she would cure herself of the effects of radiation, sadly she died before she finished making the cranes. As a sign of respect, every day people bring paper cranes from all over Japan and the rest of the world to this monument, I brought one too.

Elene Marsden Peace Cranes

But the place where I cried was the Peace Memorial Museum, I felt so upset, I had to leave the exhibition, compose myself and return. It was the stories written in the children’s diaries that touched me. One particular page came from a young girl who described the chores she’d carried out that morning, sweeping, looking after her brother, her page was decorated with flowers and patterns she’d drawn. So full of promise. And yes, there were children’s and baby clothes on display covered in blood and sometimes streaked with the black radiated rain that fell from the skies after the initial blast.

So many lives destroyed instantly but the accounts of the injuries and the suffering that continued long after the bomb was detonated were difficult to read. The exhibition was full of hard facts about the science of nuclear weapons too. There was also a display highlighting the peace treaties and plans to rid the world of nuclear weapons by 2020. Not sure how likely that’s going to be, especially with the news from North Korea this week about their nuclear tests.

What do you do after spending 2 hours at the Peace Memorial Park? It’s a tough one, our mood was flat but we were both hungry and thankfully we stumbled upon Hondori, an area I’m certain Steve visited, ordered ice cold beers and enjoyed a plate full of fried tempura.

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July 2017

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